I’m not one to like confrontation or catastrophes. When the world started tipping a few months ago, I hid like a turtle in my shell.
See, I am an Enneagram 4 (more about that here), and we 4s don’t like to face the overwhelming situations that inevitably come up in life: pain, fear, sorrow. I can’t speak for all 4s, but I do know this about me: I like to hide under my blankets when trouble comes.
In the early weeks of lockdown, I was constantly feeding my soul with other people’s words. They were good words, filled with comfort and hope and understanding. They resonated deep inside and I drank of them freely.
The same happened with all of the musicians. Everyone, it seemed, had some instrument to play or song to sing, or both. The dragged their tubas and tambourines out of the closet and played and sang away.
And me. . .I watched silently, amazed.
I noticed something about my favorite writers and podcasters. They kept writing, podcasting, and speaking on social media. They talked about their fears, told the world what they were doing to pivot in their work, shared small challenges for me, and encouraged me to continue.
And then they began speaking truth. Hard truth. But truth, nonetheless.
And one message kept coming through.
“Don’t stop creating. The world needs your art now more than ever.”
Me? The world needs to hear from me?
I wasn’t sure about that. Me? The world needs to hear from me? I wasn’t sure I liked that thought or believed that. I was still processing what was going on, sifting through the news, keeping up with my city’s recommendations.
Hadn’t everyone already said everything there was to say? Hadn’t all the truth been laid out on the table within easy reach? What could I say that would be unique, new, different?
For I was still trying to sort out my own fear, depression, anger, and struggles. I was the weak one, the one who struggled with getting out of bed every day, the one who didn’t have strength to grab life with both hands, to make plans, to hope.
I still lay awake at night, staring into the darkness and wondering how life would be two months from now, four months from now, a year from now. How could I share anything of worth? How could I encourage anyone when I was still wondering how to encourage myself?
I knew that I should post something, but perfectionism kept me from it. That’s something else about Enneagram 4s. . .anything we present to the world must be flawless. If I did write a blog post or an Instagram post or go live on Facebook, it had to be perfect. Or else.
But when you’re a creative, excuses won’t let you hide. Your fear is real, but the art won’t be silent. It’s still within you and you can try to cover it up, but it still comes back to haunt you in the wee hours of the morning. Or tug at your subconscious when you’re busy washing dishes or sorting laundry. And it turns a deaf ear to pleas for perfectionism.
So I decided to post something. Nervously, I wrote several free verse poems and posted them on Instagram the weekend of Easter, working through thoughts I was carrying in my heart. They were rough pieces of art and I knew it. But it didn’t matter. I chose a few topics that were pressing on me–fear and hope–and tried to express them in the way that meant something to me in light of the glorious hope we have in Christ.
Whether anyone read them or not. . .at least I had been true to myself. I had heeded the call to share my words. And that was really all that mattered.
And I found some things to be true.
- Although I was frightened of the future, I could take time to process that. For you, this might take different forms: writing in a journal where no one can see your halting words, or singing and playing your instrument live on Facebook.
- Although I was frightened of the future, I needed to remember that others were, too. Once I finally processed my fear in real time via social media, I found that others understood and others could be encouraged.
We’re facing challenging times, and we need to let ourselves be vulnerable and share our fears with each other. It’s what keeps us sane, connected. It allows us to heal and hope again.
My art might not reach thousands, but that’s not the point. The point is that I created, and I shared my creation.
And now. . .may I just go back to hiding for a little bit?
Because now it’s your turn.